The important and the urgent.
Which do you pick? What are your priorities? Yes, you do have a choice. Do you hold off the important repeatedly for the urgent?
What if one day the important just fades away, further and further? What if when you turn around at long last, the important is no longer there?
Why can’t I get the image of my dad crying out of my head?
Why can’t I stop seeing the brokenness in his eyes?
Why can’t I just be strong and carry on and keep pushing forward and not let this haunt me over and over?
What’s going to happen now?
are you okay / it’s okay / things will be fine / i am here / you’re okay / you will be alright / i am here / you have me / cry just cry / are you feeling better / how is he / how is she / what can i do / talk to me / i am here / i love you / i am here / i am here / i am here / i am here / i am here / i am here / i am here / i am here / i am here / i am here
WHY??????????????????????????????????????????????????
and how. do. i. do. this.
if it is important it cannot be put off no matter how urgent the other is. Logic is simple, if ‘urgent’ over rides ‘important’ then it is more important than the ‘important’ thing you didn’t do.
So you now have to adjust your values as to what ‘important’ really is. And urgent is merely keeping other people/things from being a pain in the butt
yup, i know all that..